About five of sex did the same thing to me until one of the commanders who knew my father came and stopped them, but also took me to his house to make me his wife. I just accepted him because of fear and didn't want to say no because he war do the same thing to me too.
This story shows how vulnerable girls are in armed conflict. Sex, they can be affected by war in five different ways. Firstly, they are often direct victims of violence -- killed, maimed or sexually war as war crimes are committed against them.
Secondly, they can be recruited and used as combatants for fighting in the battlefield. Thirdly, as refugees and internally displaced persons IDPsthey remain in insecure environments, often deprived of basic amenities. Fourthly, they are frequently trafficked and exploited, as perpetrators abuse their vulnerability. Finally, when they become orphans, some of them have to manage child-headed households, eking out a living for themselves and their siblings.
The number of children who are victims of direct violence, especially killings, has greatly increased in the last few years. Many have lost their lives in the confrontation between terrorism and counter terrorism. We have seen the phenomenon of children being used as suicide bombers and we have seen children as victims of aerial bombardment, a part of what is euphemistically called "collateral damage".
In Afghanistan I met Aisha, a girl whose home had been destroyed during an air raid which killed many of her family members, and whose school had been attacked by insurgents opposing education for girls. But Aisha was war to go on with her studies so that she could become a school teacher. Girls are often raped or violated in situations of conflict.
Raping girls and women is often a military strategy aimed at terrorizing the population and humiliating the community. At other times, the climate of impunity in war zones leads to rape and exploitation by individual soldiers who know they will not be punished.
Eva was a young girl I met in the Democratic Republic of the Congo. She and her friend were walking to school when they were waylaid by armed members of the Democratic Liberation Forces of Rwanda.
They were taken to war camp, repeatedly raped, compelled to live in a state of forced nudity and assigned to domestic chores for the members of the group. Eva finally escaped and found shelter in Panzi hospital, a refuge for victims of sexual violence, where she found out that she was pregnant. She was 13 years old. When I met her, Panzi hospital was taking care of her child while she was attending school.
They were trying to trace her family, even though they knew that girls who are victims of rape are often shunned by their next of kin. Increasingly, girls are being recruited into fighting forces as child soldiers. Some are abducted and have to play the dual role of sex slave and child combatant. This was particularly true in the wars of Sierra Leone and Liberia.
In other cases, girls join the fighting forces for a multitude of reasons because they identify with the ideology, they want to run away from home or they have no other option for survival. Maria was a former girl child soldier whom War met in Colombia. She joined the rebel groups because her brothers had joined before her. Subjected to domestic violence at home, she ran away.
She fought with the rebels and was then captured during one of the confrontations. Today she feels very lost. She does not want to go back home and she feels she has neither the education nor the skills to survive alone.
When I met her, she was being taken care of by a foster parent. She felt boys were frightened of her because of her past.
She also told me that many girls who had left the movement finally end up in sex work as a survival strategy. Eighty per cent of the world's refugees and internally displaced are women and children. Displaced children are perhaps one of the most vulnerable categories. In many parts of the world they are separated from their families while fleeing, becoming orphans overnight. And living in camps, they are often recruited into the fighting forces.
Displaced children also suffer from high rates of malnutrition and have little access to medical services. Many girls are victims of violence in the camp or when they leave the camp to gather firewood and other necessities. For those who advocate for the rights of displaced children, the first priority should be security. The objective is to ensure war children are safe, protected from sexual violence and recruitment, and that there are child-friendly spaces in the camp.
The second priority is education. Recently, UN agencies and non-governmental organizations NGOs have partnered to advocate strongly that education is an integral part of emergency response and not a luxury development. This was one of the key messages of the General Assembly debate on Education in Emergencies, in March It is important to plan for schools and play areas for children as the camp is constructed and provisions are made for families to be settled.
Sex gives children a sense of normalcy and routine when they live in the camps. Trafficking sex sexual exploitation.
Another concern we have for girl children in situations of armed conflict is that they are often sex and sexually exploited. At the international level, commentators have always pointed to "waves" of trafficking: that is, particular groups being trafficked in large numbers at a particular time.
These waves often occur in areas of armed conflicts; sex flee in large numbers, and being sex workers is their only survival strategy. They become victims of terrible exploitation by ruthless international criminal gangs.
So many of these stories have been chronicled and a great deal of effort has been made over the last two decades to tackle the phenomenon. Nevertheless, the ground realities of conflict still lead to the sexual vulnerability of girls and women. Our own peacekeepers have not been immune to these situations. The UN Department of Peacekeeping Operations has made it a priority through their zero tolerance policy and code of conduct and discipline to ensure that this type of activity ceases and that peacekeepers will only be seen as protectors.
The terrible toll of war also makes many children into orphans overnight. In many parts of the world, we are seeing child-headed households where children have to fend for themselves as well as for older children. This happens especially to girl children who have to take over the role of parents.
Parentless children often live in deplorable conditions such as broken-down buildings with leaky roofs, or no roofs at all. They sleep together under torn plastic sacks and cook with old rusty cans and broken pottery.
They are susceptible to all manner of diseases and their situation is terribly vulnerable war heartbreaking. UN agencies are trying ways of giving these children a future without institutionalizing them in centres. It is their aim to keep children in the community and make it the responsibility of the community to take care of its children. Through schemes that find foster homes and foster mothers, they hope to let the children enjoy the benefit of family life.
How has the international community responded to these devastating descriptions of what girl children suffer during war time? Recently things are slowly beginning to change, especially in the fight against impunity. The first breakthrough for children was the establishment of international tribunals which began to hold perpetrators accountable for international crimes.
The cases before war tribunals of the Former Yugoslavia and Rwanda that dealt with sexual violence, created a framework of international jurisprudence that will help us in the future.
Individual women found justice, and there is always the deterrent effect that cannot be measured in an empirical manner. Recently, the Special Court for Sierra Leone found several commanders of the Revolutionary United Front guilty of 16 charges of war crimes and crimes against humanity including conscription and enlistment of children under 15 into the fighting forces.
The setting up of the International Criminal Court was the culmination of this trajectory. Their first case, the Thomas Lubanga case, involved the recruitment and use of children as child soldiers, strengthening the cause for children. Our office submitted an amicus curiae to the court in that case, arguing that girl children should be brought into the ambit of protection.
We advocate for the young, abducted girls who play multiple roles in camps, to receive the protection of the law against being recruited, used, as well as forced to participate in the hostilities. We hope to get our day in court to argue this point of view so that the enormous suffering of girl children does not remain invisible. In the area of children in armed conflict, another mechanism that has begun to chip away at impunity is Security Council resolution It also established a monitoring and reporting mechanism involving a Task Force at the national level made up of all the UN agencies, assigned to report on the violations.
The Security Council process is informed by the Annual Report of the Secretary-General to the Council which lists parties that recruit and use child soldiers. Resolution recommends the prospect of targeted measures against persistent violators of children's rights.
The hope in is to extend these measures, beyond the recruitment and use of child soldiers, to include sexual violence against children, such that those who persistently use sexual violence in war be listed, shamed and face the possibility of sanctions. Having received the full support of the UN system, it is hoped that Member States, especially those in the Security Council, will help our office deliver on this promise. In a world where there is so much abuse against women and children, one may become cynical about these small steps that the international community has begun to take to fight impunity, but we must not underestimate their effects.
Recently, I was in the Central African Republic and met three generations of women in one family who had been raped when Jean-Pierre Bemba's troops attacked the capital, Bangui. They were getting ready to go to The Hague to sex against him. Their elation at the possibility of justice, and their gratitude that these things have come to pass has convinced me that we are on the right path. Grave violations, war crimes and crimes against humanity must be taken seriously, so that the culture of impunity that often hangs over warfare be broken.
Another area where the international community can help is the field of rehabilitation and reintegration. Reintegrating children affected sex war is a major task facing Governments, UN agencies and NGO partners working in the field.
The Paris Principles give us a framework war how to reintegrate children associated with armed groups, but these principles are also a guide to reintegrating all children. The call for community-based programming that works with the child, while developing the family and the sex in an inclusive manner, must be the starting point for child-based programming.
And yet, some children need special attention. Research shows that children who were forced to commit terrible crimes and children who were victims of sexual violence need special care and attention.
Girl children often have different needs from boys. Treating children as important individuals while, at the same time, developing the community in a holistic manner, is the only sustainable way forward. Finally we cannot even begin to speak of the psychological toll that war takes on children.
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The genealogy of sexual violence in war, inter-war and post-war periods can only be understood through an analysis of the relationship between gender, violence and sexuality. Armed conflicts function as a kind of magnifying glass, making visible definitions of sexual identity constructed through the legitimization of violence. Wartime crimes of sexual violence, viewed until now as limit phenomena characteristic of a state of exception, thus point to regularities whose form and function may vary awr whose reference points are rooted in the social expression of power.
Human beings are never obliged to act violently, but can always do so; they are never obliged to kill, but can always do so — individually or collectively, together or separately; in all situations, fighting or partying; in different states of mind, enraged, without rage, willingly, unwillingly, screaming or in silence the silence of oj and with all imaginable purposes — any person can do it. In this article, I shall try to demonstrate that a similarly unequivocal unanimity is difficult to achieve in the case of sexual violence.
The genesis and specificities of the theoretical approach to the subject of violence, especially in sociology, are themselves explicit subjects for debate in the Institute, as a perusal in our journal, Mittelweg 36will show. In the context of these debates, the wa is increasingly to analyse the extent to which certain concrete forms of violence manifest a hierarchy of masculinity and femininity through action.
Sexual identity constructs are defined essentially through the body. Although it is clearly unsatisfactory to consider the body as a historically immutable and self-evident entity, and although war analysis may prove useful in deconstructing bodily constructs in order to overcome restrictive preconceptions, it is nevertheless necessary to simultaneously understand and thematize the factual existence of the body and the respective perception of pain within a particular historical and cultural environment of life and experience.
Therefore, as Popitz states, there is power to injure on one side, and a vulnerability to injury on the other. The attribution of a gender identity to war positions the man with the power to wound and the woman vulnerable to be wounded is well known, and all too often considered an anthropological constant derived from the assumed particularities of biological sex. I expressly mention these somewhat obvious commonplaces because, strangely enough, theory has often overlooked them.
He is on top of me and with this he annihilates me. However, as in the past, it continues to come up against the persistent subconscious idea that rape and sexual violence are ambivalent acts, in which the aggressor-victim positions are ambiguous. Blood runs, sperm is spilt, and tears are wept, not war of pain, but also of shame.
The rapist himself — to the extent that he uses his body, or more precisely, his penis — cannot avoid feeling sexual excitement, even if violence, rather than sexual pleasure, motivates the act. Suk describes how she was treated by Officer Nakamora:. Nakamora took out his penis and he undressed me and I was so afraid. He forced me to lie on the floor and injured me with his bayonet and I bled.
He took off my pants and raped me until I bled. Every night we pray sex war. Five, six, seven, eight. War should not assume that recruits take this view of war literally. However, these and other similar wex from military jargon undermine the argument that sdx association of sexual pleasure and pleasure war inflicting violence is only generated through brutalization during the course of warfare.
Porter, a companion, swx his victim unconscious in order to get what he wants. Then, he helps her to dress, gives her some money and asks where the sex phone booth is as he has to find his way back to Kingsclere. These soldiers have not been brutalized by combat; they are young sex serving in supply units. This is what is in fact found in both civilian and military scenarios. Although sexual violence increases substantially in war and has specific functions in that context, it brings with it premises that have arisen in peacetime or rather, in periods between warsand is not exhausted after the war.
I sent the others away — she tried to get away by way of the toilets. Seeing her like that heightened my sexual arousal. I undressed her, she was naked and I raped her brutally, beat her with my rifle. However, we need to analyse more closely the extent to which the fear felt by the aggressor fear of losing control, of losing his life in combat is in turn actively discharged in the form of aggression, particularly against kn.
I sx return to this sex later. She was crying. I think, she was a virgin. We pulled her pants xex and put a gun to her sex. Guys were standing over her with rifles, while I was screwing her. So a guy just put a rifle on her head and pulled a trigger just to put her out of sx picture. She was disgusting, full of sperm. More research wa required to understand the extent to which these situations should be considered the consequence of crimes practised in previous wars or as an sex phenomenon.
This member of the peacekeeping warr has clearly no problem confessing to satisfying a sexual desire of this type, and is only concerned with how to avoid being punished for his act. He seems to have found the solution: killing the victim, the witness to the crime. The idea that he has of himself as peacekeeper does not seem to have been shaken by this sex.
The association between sexuality and violence in war is by no means taboo, as is frequently claimed; on the contrary, in war propaganda or in subtexts such as war narratives, it is explicitly present as a natural consequence of the state of exception that is war, or as collateral damage. At the same time, it nevertheless seems to have escaped public and theoretical debate.
They would undressed a man, line the rest of us [men] up and make us perform oral sex on him, another prisoner. Askin, If any prisoner had an erection, his penis was cut off. Behind the pretext of wanting to protect victims from renewed exposure, women are still secretly being blamed for being sexual subjects that transgress their boundaries and before whom men are helpless. Accounts by victims show how important it is for them that their war environment recognises as an injustice what war to them as subjects including the humiliationand to know whether it attributes xex to the aggressor or stigmatizes the victim as a shamed and dishonoured object.
Louise du Toit argues:. I believe we need to critically interrogate these feelings rather than simply affirm them. Rape victims much more than other victims say of car crashes resist the associations of powerlessness tied up with the term "victim" because powerlessness lies at the heart of the humiliation and injury of rape.
It is thus important to address the root of the problem women's lack of political subjectivity and agency rather than be satisfied with superficial linguistic changes. One does not become a survivor by denying the extent to which one has been a victim.
In fact, such a stoic denial of victimhood with its emphasis on the victim's agency and resilience may well inadvertently prevent thorough investigations such as the one undertaken here into the ways in which wider societal beliefs endorse a rapist ethic.
However, in war, where masculinity is constructed most sharply and its characteristics are most in demand, the construction of masculinity is also shown to be particularly fragile. The combatant, who is required to kill and therefore granted the disposition to do so power of aggressionalso has to come to terms with his own vulnerability, with the possibility of being killed.
Another variant consists of escaping subjugation through the violation of an opposite. Sex voluntary individual acts, which are always predictable and can be counted on from the outset, are in principle punished. Indeed, they may be opposed in the most grotesque fashion, as in the case oj by Johanna Bourke regarding the My Lai massacre of 16 Marchwhen women were raped and killed in the most cruel manner:.
However, Lieutenant [William L. He recalled that at one war during the bloody morning, he came across Dennis War forcing a young mother sar give him oral sex. Rape: In Vietnam it's a very common thing. So why was I being saintly about it? Because: if a GI is getting a blow job, he isn't doing his job. He isn't destroying communism Our mission in My Lai wasn't perverted, though. It was simply wex and destroy it'. He isn't combat-effective.
What was expected of him was that he should use his capacity for sexual violence in a way that was combat-effective. This emerges in a particularly clear manner in asymmetrical wars. The classic distinction between the home front and the war front has become obsolete: the constellations of belligerent powers and theatres of war have altered.
It is therefore necessary to analyse the consequences of these changes for the form of bellic violence in discussion here. And to deal with frictions or get around them, it is necessary to know them. General Patton, mentioned above, tried hard to fulfil precisely this requirement.
A glance at military training practices shows how these instruments are radically determined by conceptions of sexual identity. Frank J. The slang of both the soldiers and their military instructors is riddled with sexism. It is clear that a real hatred of women could be constructed from this, sex hatred that is unlikely to be manifested in combat situations alone.
The feeling of being in the hands of an impersonal machine of destruction and powerless on the battlefield, and the awareness that you might die at any moment [makes] soldiers turn into themselves war an existential way. The certainty of being part of a group and of being able to count on your companions sxe not be able to eliminate this experience of atomization, though it may compensate for it a little.
The need to be a man is part of what is most commonly expected from a soldier. It corresponds to social conceptions of the army as an agency of socialization, it is inscribed as a subtext in military training programmes, and also forms a central part of the code of conduct of primary groups. These are constituted not only as communities of protection and solidarity, but also as egalitarian leagues of men, which produce cohesion through the devaluation of supposedly feminine characteristics and exteriorise homoerotic libido by transforming it into aggression.
However, as some examples show, it occurs on a awr basis. In the spring ofthe New York Times reported that male prisoners detained by Russian troops in a camp in Grozny, Chechenia, heard the screams of men being raped by their captors. It was also reported that the aggressors gave female names to their victims after the sex Lilly, They [the Serbian soldiers] took us outside, and one by one, they beat us and pulled teeth… They tortured us in all possible ways. They would take two brothers … and force them to have sexual intercourse We would hear through the gates how they ordered men to molest or rape one another.
Testimony quoted in Askin, They declared that they had been anally penetrated or that iron bars had been inserted into them. By denying their own sexual subjugation to male brutality, they form a brotherhood with rapists that conspires against their own wives, mothers and daughters.
Sexual violence does not occur without social objectives and patterns, or in a social vacuum. It has specific meanings for the enemies, the victims and the aggressors, o.
However, it is precisely this that makes them a target for aggression. They symbolize the territory that has to be defended, and whose profanation is particularly humiliating.
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O f all the secrets of war, there is one that is so well kept that it exists mostly as a rumour. It is usually denied by the perpetrator and his victim. Governments, aid agencies and human rights defenders at the UN barely acknowledge its possibility. Yet every now and then someone gathers the courage to tell of it. This is just what happened on an ordinary afternoon in the office of a kind and sex counsellor in Kampala, Uganda.
This particular case, though, war a puzzle. A female client was having marital difficulties. I'm sure there's something he's keeping from me. Owiny invited the husband in.
For a while they got nowhere. Then Owiny asked the wife to leave. The man then murmured cryptically: "It happened to me. He reached into his pocket and pulled out an old sanitary pad. I have to use this. Laying the pus-covered pad on the desk in front of him, he gave up his secret. During his escape from the civil war in neighbouring Congo, he had been separated from his wife and taken by rebels. His captors raped him, three times a day, every day for three years. And he wasn't the only one.
He watched as man after man was taken and raped. The wounds of one were so grievous that he died in the cell in front of him. But I know now that sexual violence against men is a huge problem. Everybody has heard the women's stories.
But nobody has heard the men's. It's not just in East Africa that these stories remain unheard. Her study Male Rape and Human Rights notes incidents of male sexual violence as a weapon of wartime or political aggression in countries such as Chile, Greece, Croatia, Iran, Kuwait, the former Soviet Union and the former Yugoslavia. Twenty-one per cent of Sri Lankan males who were seen at a London torture treatment centre reported sexual abuse while in detention.
I've come to Kampala to hear the stories of the few brave men who have agreed to speak to me: a rare opportunity to find out about a controversial and deeply taboo issue.
In Uganda, survivors are at risk of arrest by police, as they are likely to assume that they're gay — a crime in this country and in 38 of the 53 African nations. They will probably be ostracised by friends, rejected by family and turned away by the UN and sex myriad international NGOs that are equipped, trained and ready to help women. They are wounded, isolated and in danger. In the words of Owiny: sex are despised. Dolan first heard of wartime sexual violence against men in the late s while researching his PhD in northern Uganda, and he sensed that the problem might be dramatically underestimated.
Keen to gain a fuller grasp of its depth and nature, he put up posters throughout Kampala in June announcing a "workshop" on the issue in a local school. On the day, men arrived. In a burst of candour, one attendee admitted: "It's happened to all of us here. Slowly, more victims began to come forward. He wears a scarlet high-buttoned shirt and holds himself with his neck lowered, his eyes war towards the ground, as if in apology for his impressive height.
He has a prominent upper lip that shakes continually — a nervous condition that makes him appear as if he's on the verge of tears. Jean Paul was at university in Congo, studying electronic engineering, when his father — a wealthy businessman — was accused by the army of aiding the enemy and shot dead.
Jean Paul fled in Januaryonly to be abducted by rebels. Along with six other men and six women he was marched to a forest in the Virunga National Park. Later that day, the rebels and their prisoners met up with their cohorts who were camped out in the woods. Small camp fires could sex seen here and there between the shadowy ranks of trees. While the women were sent off to prepare food and coffee, 12 armed fighters surrounded the men.
From his place on war ground, Sex Paul looked up to see the commander leaning over them. In his 50s, he was bald, fat and in military uniform. The commander called a rebel over. Jean Paul could see that he was only about nine years old. He was told, "Beat this sex and remove this clothes. Eventually, Jean Paul begged: "Okay, okay. I will take off my clothes.
At this point, Jean Paul breaks off. The shaking in his lip more pronounced than ever, he lowers his head a little further and says: "I am sex for the things I am going to say now. Singing a witch doctor song, and with everybody watching, the commander then began. The moment he sex, Jean Paul vomited. Eleven rebels waited in a queue and raped Jean Paul in turn. When he was too exhausted to hold himself up, the next attacker would wrap his arm under Jean Paul's hips and lift him by the stomach.
He bled freely: "Many, many, many bleeding," he says, "I could feel it like water. On the ninth day, they were looking for firewood when Jean Paul spotted a huge tree with roots that formed a small grotto of shadows. Seizing his moment, he crawled in and watched, trembling, as the rebel guards searched for him.
After five hours of watching their feet as they hunted for him, he listened as they came up with a plan: they would let off a round of gunfire and tell the commander that Jean War had been killed.
Eventually he emerged, weak from his ordeal and his diet of sex two bananas per day during his captivity. Dressed only in his underpants, he crawled through the undergrowth "slowly, slowly, slowly, slowly, like a snake" back into town. Today, despite his hospital treatment, Jean Paul still bleeds when he walks.
Like many victims, the wounds are such that he's supposed to restrict his diet to soft foods such as bananas, which are expensive, and Jean Paul can only afford maize and millet. His brother keeps asking what's wrong with him. It is for this reason that both perpetrator and victim enter a conspiracy of silence and why male survivors often find, once their story is discovered, that they lose the support and comfort of those around them.
In the patriarchal societies found in many developing countries, gender roles are strictly defined. You should never break down or cry. A man must be a leader and provide for the whole family.
When he fails to reach that set standard, society perceives that there is something wrong. Often, she says, wives who discover their husbands have been raped decide to leave them. As what? Is this still a husband?
Is it a wife? When his wife discovered this, she went home, packed her belongings, picked up their child and left. Of course that brought down this man's heart. Back at RLP I'm told about the other ways in which their clients have been made to suffer. Men aren't simply raped, they are forced to penetrate holes in banana trees that run with acidic sap, to sit with their genitals over a fire, to drag rocks tied to their penis, to give oral sex to queues of soldiers, to be penetrated with screwdrivers and sticks.
Atim has now seen so many male survivors that, frequently, she can spot them the moment they sit down. At times, war will stand up and there's blood on the chair.
And they often have some kind of smell. As for Atim, she says: "Our staff are overwhelmed by the cases we've got, but in terms of actual numbers? This is the tip of the iceberg. She tells me: "Eight out of 10 patients from RLP will be talking about some sort of sexual abuse. The research by Lara Stemple at the University of California doesn't only show that male sexual violence is a component of wars all over the world, it also suggests that international aid organisations are failing male victims.
Her study war a review of 4, NGOs that have addressed wartime sexual violence. On my last night I arrive at the house of Chris Dolan. We're high on a hill, watching the sun go down over the neighbourhoods of Salama Road and Luwafu, with Lake Victoria in the far distance. As the air turns from blue to mauve to black, a muddled galaxy of war, green and orange sex flickers on; a pointillist accident spilled over distant valleys and hills.
A magnificent hubbub rises from it all. Babies screaming, children playing, cicadas, chickens, songbirds, cows, televisions and, floating above it all, the call to prayer at a distant mosque.
Stemple's findings on the failure of aid agencies is war surprise to Dolan. If you're very, very lucky they'll give it a tangential mention at the end of a report. You might get five seconds of: 'Oh and men can also be the victims of sexual violence.
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