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Neeta Lyffe: I Left My Brains in San Francisco

We like to point fingers at other things to explain why something went wrong, like when Biff Tannen crashed George McFly's car and spilled beer on his clothes, but it was all George's fault for not telling him the car had a blind spot.

Every time she'd walk into the kitchen and find a drinking glass by the sink, she moved incrementally closer to moving out and ending our marriage. I just didn't know it yet.

But even if I had, I fear I wouldn't have worked as hard to change my behavior as I would have stubbornly tried to get her to see things my way.

Feeling respected by one's wife is essential to living a purposeful and meaningful life. Maybe I thought my wife should respect me simply because I exchanged vows with her. It wouldn't be the first time I acted entitled. One thing I know for sure is that I never connected putting a dish in the dishwasher with earning my wife's respect.

I remember my wife often saying how exhausting it was for her to have to tell me what to do all the time. It's why the sexiest thing a man can say to his partner is "I got this," and then take care of whatever needs taken care of.

She wanted to be my partner, and she wanted me to apply all of my intelligence and learning capabilities to the logistics of managing our lives and household.

We like to point fingers at other things to explain why something went wrong, like when Biff Tannen crashed George McFly's car and spilled beer on his clothes, but it was all George's fault for not telling him the car had a blind spot.

Every time she'd walk into the kitchen and find a drinking glass by the sink, she moved incrementally closer to moving out and ending our marriage. I just didn't know it yet.

But even if I had, I fear I wouldn't have worked as hard to change my behavior as I would have stubbornly tried to get her to see things my way.

Feeling respected by one's wife is essential to living a purposeful and meaningful life. Maybe I thought my wife should respect me simply because I exchanged vows with her. It wouldn't be the first time I acted entitled. One thing I know for sure is that I never connected putting a dish in the dishwasher with earning my wife's respect.

I remember my wife often saying how exhausting it was for her to have to tell me what to do all the time. It's why the sexiest thing a man can say to his partner is "I got this," and then take care of whatever needs taken care of.

She wanted to be my partner, and she wanted me to apply all of my intelligence and learning capabilities to the logistics of managing our lives and household.

You’ve been fighting again. What? No! That’s ridiculous! I know when you’re lying Mac! Neeta, please!

1. Relationship with Sally, which wouldn’t just be sweet and lovely, but also deals with complex issues around sexuality (both bisexuality and homosexuality), gender identity, age difference, Sally’s insecurities about Neeta being so young and beautiful and Neeta assuring her she wants no one else, and “we can’t get caught at work” work shenanigans.

2. Abuse storyline which ends with her bonding with James and/or Maxine, and the Nightingales kicking Mac out once and for all.

3. Hunter’s crush leads into stalker behaviour (which, let’s be real, it did) and the difficulty of being on the receiving end of that type of behaviour, especially when you’re older and in a position of power, and therefore more likely to be blamed even if you don’t do anything.

4. Bring in her family and get some more POC family fun and drama. Alternatively, have her bond with Yasmin at school because there are very few woc at the school and they might have shared experiences when it comes to that.

If you’ve read my posts before, you’ll already know that I have a huge problem with the Hunter/Neeta story. 



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